In brief
California law requires the court to set contested custody and visitation issues for mediation, and Riverside County runs that step as child custody recommending counseling (CCRC) through Family Court Services before the hearing. The judge decides by the child’s best interest, with the child’s health, safety and welfare first.
- Until there is a court order, both parents have the same rights to make decisions and to have the children in their care4.
- To ask for or change custody in an existing case, the form is the Request for Order (FL-300); the order itself is written on the FL-341 attachments67.
- Before the CCRC appointment each parent is required to complete the free Up to Parents online course and the CCRC questionnaire and bring the certificate and a copy3.
- A finding that a parent committed domestic violence within the previous five years creates a rebuttable presumption against sole or joint custody for that parent (Family Code section 3044, operative January 1, 2026)8.
- A child 14 or older who wishes to address the court about custody “shall be permitted to do so” unless the court finds it is not in the child’s best interest9.
This page explains the court’s process. It is not legal advice, and this site is not a law firm.
The detail
Custody and visitation orders in Riverside County come from an agreement the judge signs or from the judge’s decision after a hearing. This page covers the legal standard, the appointment with Family Court Services, the forms, and what changes when domestic violence is alleged. Steps with their own pages are linked where they come up: the CCRC appointment, changing an order, emergency orders, parentage, supervised visitation, child support and spousal support.
The short answer
| If you are… | The next step in the process is |
|---|---|
| Married or partnered, not divorcing, with no case open | A Petition for Custody and Support10 |
| Unmarried and not both legal parents of the child | A Petition to Determine Parentage (form FL-200); see parentage1011 |
| In an existing family case and asking for or changing custody or visitation | A Request for Order (form FL-300); see changing an order610 |
| Facing a risk that the child will be harmed or removed from California within days | Temporary emergency (ex parte) orders; see emergency orders11 |
| Asking for protection from abuse | A restraining order request, which can include custody requests on form DV-105; see restraining orders12 |
| Served with a restraining order request | Responding to a restraining order |
| Not a parent, asking for custody because the parents cannot care for the child | A guardianship case10 |
Unmarried parents who are both legal parents (for example, both signed a voluntary declaration of parentage) can use either petition10.
Legal custody, physical custody and visitation
Legal custody is who makes important decisions about the child’s health care, education and welfare. Physical custody is where the child lives most of the time. Each can be joint or sole4. Visitation, also called parenting time, can be scheduled, reasonable (open-ended), supervised, none where even supervised visits would harm the child, or virtual by video4.
How the court decides: the best-interest standard
The court’s primary concern is the child’s health, safety and welfare. The Legislature also declared a policy of frequent and continuing contact with both parents after separation, except where that contact would not be in the child’s best interest; where the two conflict, the order protects the child’s health, safety and welfare and the safety of all family members (Family Code section 3020)5.
Section 3040 sets an order of preference: custody to both parents jointly or to either parent; if neither, the person in whose home the child has been living in a wholesome and stable environment; then any other suitable person. Between parents, the court considers which is more likely to allow the child frequent and continuing contact with the other. The section states that it creates neither a preference nor a presumption for or against joint or sole custody13.
Section 3011 lists what the court must consider, among other factors14:
- The child’s health, safety and welfare.
- A history of abuse by a parent or anyone seeking custody against a child, the other parent or certain household members. The court may require independent corroboration, such as law enforcement or medical records.
- The nature and amount of contact with both parents.
- Habitual or continual illegal drug use or abuse of alcohol or prescribed controlled substances by either parent, with the same option to require corroboration.
If abuse or substance allegations are before the court and it orders sole or joint custody or unsupervised visitation for that parent, it must state in writing or on the record that the order is in the child’s best interest and protects safety, and the order must give the time, day, place and manner of transfer14.
A child old enough to form an intelligent preference has the wishes considered and given due weight. A child 14 or older who wants to address the court must be permitted to unless the court finds it is not in the child’s best interest and says why on the record. The child is not required to give a preference, and the court generally may not hear the child in front of the parties9. The statute names no age other than 14, and Riverside’s FAQ says no set age decides which parent a child lives with15.
Domestic violence and Family Code section 3044
Section 3044 was repealed and re-added by Statutes 2024, chapter 544 (SB 899), and by its own terms became effective January 1, 20268. In summary8:
- If the court finds a party seeking custody perpetrated domestic violence within the previous five years against the other party, the child or the child’s siblings, there is a rebuttable presumption that sole or joint physical or legal custody for that party is detrimental to the child. It “may only be rebutted by a preponderance of the evidence.”
- To overcome it, the court must find custody to that party is in the child’s best interest, and the preference for frequent contact with both parents may not be used to rebut it. It must also find that the listed factors, on balance, support section 3020. They include completing a batterer’s treatment program, compliance with probation, parole and protective orders, further acts of violence, and a finding that the person possessed a firearm in violation of a restraining order.
- A conviction of a qualifying crime within five years satisfies the requirement of a finding. A finding cannot rest solely on a custody evaluator’s conclusions or a Family Court Services recommendation.
- The court decides whether the section applies before it issues a custody order after an evidentiary hearing, unless it needs a continuance; if it finds the presumption overcome it states its reasons. It must give the parties a copy of the section before custody mediation.
Sources disagree The court’s self-help page says that “in most cases” the parent who was not abusive receives sole legal and physical custody, and the other parent may still visit, usually with limits or supervision16. The statute creates a rebuttable presumption, overcome only by the findings above8. The statute governs; the self-help page is a summary.
Family Court Services and the CCRC appointment
When custody or visitation is contested on the face of a pleading, the court shall set the contested issues for mediation (Family Code section 3170)1. A mediator may, under local rules, submit a written recommendation; the process is then called child custody recommending counseling (section 3183)2. In Riverside, if the parties do not agree, the counselor prepares a recommendation for the court3. The appointment is covered on Family Court Services and in a checklist. In outline:
| Stage | What the court’s rule and pages say |
|---|---|
| Scheduling | An appointment is assigned before the court date, and one session is completed before it. Parties appear in person unless the department head approves a remote appearance requested at least seven days before17 |
| Before | Each parent is required to complete the free Up to Parents course and the CCRC questionnaire, and bring the certificate and a copy. The Parent Orientation Program video is encouraged, not required3 |
| At the appointment | Arrive at least 30 minutes early. Both parents attend, for up to two hours. No children and no third parties; attorneys are not allowed in the session315 |
| Documents | Only documents filed with the court are considered3. Documents brought must be served on the other party first17 |
| After | A stipulated parenting plan, or a recommendation if there is no agreement, typically goes to the court at least two court days before the hearing. Neither parent may contact the counselor after being excused3 |
The questionnaire (form RI-FL024, revised January 7, 2026) asks about each child’s school, child protective services involvement, special needs, counseling and medication18. A parent who misses the appointment must still appear at the hearing and explain, and the court may refer the parent for another appointment15.
Good to know The statute and the court’s statewide self-help page say “mediation,” but in Riverside the counselor can recommend an outcome to the judge2319. Sessions are confidential between the counselor and the parties, but information may be shared with the judge, and suspected child abuse or neglect must be reported15.
If domestic violence is involved, the self-help page says to tell the mediator right away and that a parent can ask for separate rooms or a different time19. Riverside’s FAQ adds that a parent can tell the clerk at check-in and meet the counselor separately15.
From request to hearing: the Request for Order
The court’s FAQ points to the Request for Order (form FL-300) for obtaining or changing custody orders in an existing case11. The court’s non-emergency packet gives these steps20:
- Complete the forms. The FL-300 states the request; the supporting facts cannot run over 10 pages without permission21. Schedule detail goes on the FL-311 attachment22.
- File and pay the fee or ask for a waiver, at the clerk’s window, by drop box or mail, or through eSubmit20. The self-help page gives a range of $60 to $85 for a Request for Order6; Riverside’s Rule 5110 says all are subject to statutory fees17.
- Get the hearing date from the file-stamped copy. The FAQ says the clerk will probably give a court date and possibly a mediation date, and to ask the clerk if unsure11.
- Serve the other parent. With no response on file, personal service by an adult other than the filer at least 16 court days before the hearing; with a response on file, service by mail by an adult other than the filer at least 21 calendar days before20.
- File proof of service (form FL-330 or FL-335), attend the CCRC appointment if set, then the hearing; the order after hearing (form FL-340) is prepared if necessary20.
A person served files a responsive declaration (form FL-320) and serves it at least nine court days before the hearing unless the court shortened the time; the form warns the court may make the orders without the person otherwise21.
The forms
| Form | What it is | Used for |
|---|---|---|
| FL-300 | Request for Order (revised July 1, 2025)21 | Asking for or changing custody, visitation or support in an existing case6 |
| FL-311 | Child Custody and Visitation (Parenting Time) Application Attachment (revised January 1, 2026)22 | Schedule detail attached to the request, petition or response |
| FL-341, (A) to (E) | Order Attachment (revised July 1, 2026)7 | The order itself: supervised visitation (A), abduction prevention (B), holidays (C), additional provisions (D), joint legal custody (E)23 |
| FL-305, RI-FL004 | Temporary Emergency Orders; Riverside notice declaration | Emergency orders before a hearing11 |
| FL-320, FL-330, FL-335 | Responsive Declaration; proofs of service | Responding; proving service2021 |
| RI-FL024 | CCRC Intake Questionnaire (Riverside) | Before the CCRC appointment18 |
When an order is not followed
The court’s FAQ lists a Request for Order to modify existing orders, the same request plus a request to admonish the other parent, or an Order to Show Cause and Affidavit for Contempt (form FL-410). It calls contempt “very difficult, time consuming”11. The self-help page adds that a parent can give local police a copy of the order23. A custody order made in a restraining order case survives the protective order until a court changes it (Family Code section 6340)24.
When to get help
If anyone is in immediate danger, call 91125. The court’s Self Help Legal Services explains procedure to people without attorneys but cannot say what choice to make26, and its Self Help/Family Law Assistance Center has clinics that review completed forms11; see the Self-Help Center and free and low-cost help. Reasons for individual help follow from this page: where abuse or substance use is alleged the court must make findings under section 3011 or 3044148, and where a custody case already exists in another state a parent will likely need to file there10. Paid routes are at finding an attorney through official channels.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is custody mediation required in Riverside County?
Is there a fee for the CCRC appointment?
How old does a child have to be to choose a parent?
The statute sets no such age. It requires due weight for the wishes of a child old enough to form an intelligent preference, and a child 14 or older who wishes to address the court must be permitted to unless the court finds it is not in the child’s best interest9.
Can children go to the CCRC appointment?
No. The Family Court Services page says no children are in the session. A child interview, if ordered or scheduled by the counselor, is set for a separate date and time3.
Can custody be decided without a divorce?
Yes. The self-help page lists a Petition for Custody and Support or a Petition to Determine Parentage, depending on whether the parents are married or partnered and whether both are legal parents10.
Does a restraining order case include custody?
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